User:JohnBlakesDad/Original document
Why we are here, what I need
editBeing stay at home dad
editContinue as primary care giver
editStress from breakup
editAttempting to develop sustainable career
editNeeding child support
editNeeding spousal support to have confidence to achieve career goals
editOlder SSAG ‘rule of 65’ value at 78
editWhat I did in relationship
editLife was good
editProvided half or more of family equity
editThrift Maintenance Unpaid housework Paid student loan from 2010 to 2018-9 (need 360 account download) Was apartment manager with specific benefits Took many expensive trips and traveled frequently on weekends
Capital investments
editCars House Idea of thrift and self-sufficiency doubling family equity Definitions in economic ideas - reducing debits liabilities to create equity
How we came to Canada
editJoint venture
editCame to Canada
editFor Eve's and John's career
editPlanned collaborative life with animal-based youth home
editAnimal-based PhD dissertation Greendoors Empathy writing
Lost goals
editCareer
editUnable to finish masters degree and psychotherapy career to care for child
Lost ability to restart computer career from separation stress
Personal goals for being in Canada (completely lost)
editWe agreed to move to Richibucto which would have made my life complete. All of this was canceled for the benefit of the Eve's career. Eve said I was ungrateful to her for having a child, getting Canadian citizenship, and being supported.
Bonding with a fishing community,
Bonding with a first nations band in a therapeutic context
Reconnecting with French culture
Lost opportunities to learn French
Took away (cultural) desire for sailing (explain)
Buying a manageable sailing yacht (as I had before we moved to Canada).
How things are bad now, what she is doing
editRecent problems
editLog of problems
editMostly Blake complaining that life is better at Eve's house (money and behavioral economics)