User:JohnBlakesDad/Original document

Why we are here, what I need

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Being stay at home dad

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Continue as primary care giver

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Stress from breakup

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Attempting to develop sustainable career

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Needing child support

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Needing spousal support to have confidence to achieve career goals

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Older SSAG ‘rule of 65’ value at 78

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What I did in relationship

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Life was good

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Provided half or more of family equity

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Thrift Maintenance Unpaid housework Paid student loan from 2010 to 2018-9 (need 360 account download) Was apartment manager with specific benefits Took many expensive trips and traveled frequently on weekends

Capital investments

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Cars House Idea of thrift and self-sufficiency doubling family equity Definitions in economic ideas - reducing debits liabilities to create equity

How we came to Canada

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Joint venture

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Came to Canada

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For Eve's and John's career

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Planned collaborative life with animal-based youth home

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Animal-based PhD dissertation Greendoors Empathy writing

Lost goals

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Career
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Unable to finish masters degree and psychotherapy career to care for child

Lost ability to restart computer career from separation stress

Personal goals for being in Canada (completely lost)
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We agreed to move to Richibucto which would have made my life complete. All of this was canceled for the benefit of the Eve's career. Eve said I was ungrateful to her for having a child, getting Canadian citizenship, and being supported.

Bonding with a fishing community,

Bonding with a first nations band in a therapeutic context

Reconnecting with French culture

Lost opportunities to learn French

Took away (cultural) desire for sailing (explain)

Buying a manageable sailing yacht (as I had before we moved to Canada).

How things are bad now, what she is doing

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Recent problems

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Log of problems

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Mostly Blake complaining that life is better at Eve's house (money and behavioral economics)